One of the key benefits of music therapy is its ability to tap into emotions that may be difficult to express through words alone. And in your age at this point it is your prime time to have a healthy baby. Most Northerners just use instant coffee. I suppose every region has their particular quirks and charms; these just happen to belong to the South. See if one of them is from your state. We count football season as a holiday, prepare for months and begin counting down as soon as the bowl game is over in January. But he doesnt stop. Its another part of the fact that Northerners and Southerners have slightly different manners when it comes to speaking. The snapping pop of a snare drum begins to play, the tempo gradually intensifying. Some people love it and other people feel that its just a little annoying. The goal of music therapy is to use the power of music to facilitate healing, self-expression, and personal growth. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world. Lucille Ball. Its a pretty popular beverage in the South, but youd be hard-pressed to find a Northerner thats even heard of it. Sure, were from the south, but we are not country bumpkins. Clare Regelbrugge, University of Illinois Urbana-Champaign, Sign in to comment to your favorite stories, participate in your community and interact with your friends. A lot of the most famous southern, fried foods can only be found in the North at very niche restaurants. Rami Malek has a twin brother named Sami. To be fair the UK as a whole isnt exactly known for its glorious weather, butup in the north the weather can actually be much harsher. Am northerner. These practical sandals seem to be popular because they are comfortable and somewhat of a fad. We prefer to live a few extra years. Rehearsal in Fletchers class is torture. I won't ever complain about the heat again. My kids dont say it, my husband doesnt say it; and we just dont use the word. No. Northerners only refer to Coca-Cola as Coke, so this can get pretty confusing when a Southerner orders a Coke in a Northern restaurant. My reply is always and always will be: "Well I got some chicken out of the freezer earlier but haven't really thought that far ahead yet.". According to some southerners, proper cornbread simply should not be sweet. [POW] Oh shit, my finger!!!". I have plenty of Southern friends and there are lots of things about the South that I love. People put the ice in the tea first then put the sugar in it. Then you begin to understand it is about marriage. UH have you looked at Detroit lately. This is the truth and I hated it when I lived up north. Earlier, we mentioned how Northerners seem to do everything quickly to Southerners, but mainly focused on them talking. We love our Jesus and we praise him and sing about him and we pray to him every which way, but we also tell you were going to do it. Now, Northerners dont try to be rude, they just come across as a little bit more brash to Southerners. that and whenever they come to the south they wanna tell you how they do things up north,which is of no intrest to us.uh Detroit.LOL. So what it is that northerners with that southerners would just get over already? Its one of the biggest insults around here and its not nice. 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This adds another element of realism to the film, and it makes it more enjoyable to watch, as the audience gets to see Tellers drumming skills. Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. As February draws to a close, it's a great time to celebrate the response writers who rose to the top on Odyssey this month! But darling, you have to admit its supper were having (Picture: Kurt Hutton/Picture Post/Getty Images). That chain known in the North for its homophobic CEO is known in the South for its amazing chicken nuggets, chicken sandwiches, and sauces. Meanwhile, Northerners have iced tea with sugar (not the. A lot of southerners may not understand the norths affinity with Greggs, but after trying one of their pasties you might start to. Songs About Being 17Grey's Anatomy QuotesVine Quotes4 Leaf CloverSelf Respect, 1. People have different words for soft drinks depending on what part of the US you live in. Our topics include Conspiracy Theory, Secret Societies, UFOs and more! As always you can unsubscribe at any time. What really bothers me is the judgment of southern accents, and the all too often inability to respect their more agrarian southern neighbors. 1. Everyone is the south is racist. Its just another slightly veiled insult on most fronts, and its not really fooling anyone, but its still what we say because we are a polite bunch of people who just need to be polite while still being rude. Can costs go any higher? 27. Potholes Here is an accurate representation of what a Pennsylvania road often looks like: Here is an artistic representation of a pothole that decided to give my car a flat tire recently (I personally think the resemblances are spot on. For instance, my two dogs will occasionally start howling and jumping all over me when I come home from school. Also an alleyway can be known as both a ginnel or a snicket and misunderstanding or disagreement of these words can lead to some pretty intense fall-outs up in the north. But that's what we do. Name a better celebrity of our time, I will wait. Building up to the Oscars with a rewatch of visceral feature film, "Whiplash.". Cornbread is traditionally made with cornmeal, butter or bacon grease, and buttermilk. Here's our list of the things only Northerners living down south will get. 13. Well, they do seem to be in a rush to get to places too. During the 1950's, I was raised to call the Civil War, "The War Between the States". A quick example is the word bath, do you see the letter r after the a? The north is home to some of the best countryside landscapes in the world and has thriving cities such as Leeds, Liverpool and Manchester. Cheerwine is a cherry-flavored soft drink from North Carolina. But in the South, theyre called buggies. Studies have shown that music therapy can help to reduce symptoms of depression and anxiety, improve mood, and increase feelings of social connection. If youre a southerner in the north, it doesnt matter how tough or intimidating you think you are to northerners you are and always will be soft. Northerners live busier lives on average and want everything to move quickly and efficiently. For any other winter haters, here are some things we may communally hate: 1. The camera slowly creeps forward, Andrews arms flying from drum to drum, cymbal to cymbal. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Its actually kind of like water; it runs through our veins. You know it's yours. Its not always appropriate to praise Jesus when you realize that you do have another bottle of wine in the bar when you thought you were out, but we do. Whiplash appears in white lettering against a black background. Sorry for the bias. However, down south, its a very different, tragic story. A big front porch is what its all about down here, and most people love sweet tea. It has things like distressed wood, chicken-shaped vases, and milk crates. It is a holistic approach to wellness that recognizes the interconnectedness of mind, body, and spirit. We know some trendy sushi or a plate of couscous might look nicer on your obligatory dinnertime Instagram post, but nothing beats a good old chip butty. Email glorie@theodysseyonline.com to get started! First time I said that in Charleston, the waiter thought I was the biggest dick ever. Southern sorority girls love their monograms. Of course, the North doesnt have these, as the weather is far less temperate than in the South. Why do you need your initials plastered all over it? Northerners understand that sometimes theres nothing better than a roast dinner drowning in gravy and the classic chips and gravy combination is basically considered a delicacy. Check out what's trending on Odyssey this week! There is something to be said about the south, and not just because being a lifelong Floridian has made me an honorary Southerner (no, really, we are farther south than all southerners, but the south ends at the Florida/Georgia border). As someone who passionately hates the South and came into this thread expecting rage: yeah, no, it's dumb. Even when Simmons doesnt shout, the cadence of his voice is that of a drill sergeant, terrifyingly firm. Teller nails his role, especially because he actually plays the drums throughout the entire movie, unlike other musical films. While there are many different treatment options available, from medication to therapy, many people struggle to find a treatment that resonates with them. A mysterious man confidently strolls in and orders Andrew to play double time swing. Here are ten things that Northerners just do not understand. Maybe self-improvement? First, it would be more traditional to get married and then have children as a next step. When Justin Timberlake and Ryan Gosling were on the Mickey Mouse Club, Justin's mother was Ryan's legal guardian. Its like when I go to NYC on date night with my husband and people say to us, Yall are so brave to go to the big city like that. To be honest though, I probably would've assumed that any Southern accent was an indicator of "lower education" if it wasn't for them. We dont get them often, so its a big deal. Listening to calming music has been shown to reduce the levels of cortisol, the hormone associated with stress, in the body. Jennifer Kustanovich, SUNY Stony Brook5. She said that when she was getting her PhD, her doctoral adviser told her that if she ever wanted to be taken seriously, she'd have to drop the accent. Any dog. Its simply something to complement a meal whereas in the north it quite often IS the meal. But up in the north, we reject the climate in which we reside and fight the elements. In defense of the cliche southern accent, try coming up to rural Wisconsin for awhile, it sounds just as bad. There are a few states on the Mexican/US border in the South, so the South having generally excellent Mexican food is unsurprising. Leave a Greggs, walk 10-20 yards in any direction and you'll be within earshot of another Greggs with loads of hungry northerners queueing out of the door. Within seconds, the audience is hooked at rapt attention. Congratulations to all the writers! And thats just how we do. Music has the power to evoke powerful emotions, from joy and happiness to sadness and grief. Hot tip for northerners wanting a teacake down south: dont ask for a teacake. If you hail from the south and plan on stepping foot up north anytime soon you might need to prepare yourself for a bit of a culture shock. Kristen Haddox, Penn State University4. Southerners do use this phrase with frequency and we are not always nice about it. 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